I'm a Mother; I'm a Wife..

I got a tag today from Eds and I haven't been doing any tags since ages. Since the issue of Technorati lowering all the stats, I don't find it helpful anymore plus the fact that I don't have time to really do them anymore. But from time to time, whenever I get a chance I do them though.

So this one is called I'm a Mother; I'm a Wife..... that's why I am doing it. It's something related to my blog. Recently, I made some changes on this blog and I want to make sure that I stick to those changes. They are not really visible changes but something has change. Hopefully those changes will do good as far as the ranking of my blog in the blogging world.

Okay so back to the tag.

Below are the rules:

1. Link with the person who tagged you.
2. Copy above images.
3. Post this on any or all of your Blog/s.
4. Answer the two-part questionnaire following these Rules. (Feel free to elaborate your answers. For questions 8 - 14, post only the one (1) which you believe best describes your choice.)
5. Share this with at least seven (7) friends on your Blog Roll.
6. Come back to Living A’ La Mode (DO NOT CHANGE THIS LINK PLEASE.) and leave the URL of your Post in order for you/your Blog to be added to the Master List.


Master List:
1. Tet of A Sweet Taste of Life
2. Cee of Living A’ La Mode
3. Dez of My Life in this Wonderful World
4. Vanniedosa of Life With Style
5. Eds of Eds Mommy Life
6. Vhiel of Can of Thoughts
7. Have fun!

~ Parenting Style ~

1. Do you exercise full or minimal control over your child’s / children’s behavior?
It's a shared responsibility between me and my husband. However, since I am at home most of the time I have more control but when he is home I let him do it.

2. Do you expect your child / children to obey 100% or let her / him / them do what pleases her / him / them?
Children will be children. We should all know that... we been there. So you can't expect your child to behave if the parent itself is not. Although I would love for my child to be well behave all the time... but then again I will away the chance for her to learn more if I will control everything.

3. Do you welcome discussion or you simply set rules?
Discussions is definitely welcome... except when it's something that don't need any.

4. Do you reprimand?
Yes I do. Time out is coming soon too!

5. Do you use spanking for punishment?
Hmmm... maybe soon. But not right now. Hopefully not. Right now we still do the talking part and explaining... lots of explaining.

6. Do you use some kind of a reward System for motivation?
A lot...

7. Do you enjoy being a Parent?
I never realized how rewarding and tiring to be a parent but I will not trade it for something else.

8. Are you a hands-on Parent or do you have a full-time Nanny?
Full time mommy... no nanny..

9. At what age would you let your child make simple decisions for himself / herself?
I have no particular age... because even right now there are times that I let her decide for herself. Simple things that she can do, I usually let her choose. It's a great way to start the decision making. Although I still give her options.

10.Do you and your Husband have the same Parenting Style?
There are times that we are alike... but a lot of times we are not.

~ Wife Style ~

7. How long have you been married?
I been married since August of 2004. So that would make almost 4 1/2 years.

8. How do you feel about being a Wife?
Being a wife has a lot of things to consider. Its different when you are just boyfriend and girlfriend.

9. What has been your typical sleeping attire since you got married?
Hmmm... pretty much the same when I was single... tank and sleeping with my underwear. Sometimes... night gowns...

10. How do you show how appreciative you are of your Husband?
That's a good question. I usually buy him something or do something for him.

11. What do you do when your Husband annoys you?
I tell him he is annoying me... or do the silent treatment.

12. You are buying or planning to buy your first house as Husband and Wife….
We already bought our starting home. And we are constantly in the process of renovations. By the time we are done renovating its time to buy a new home. :(

13. How does your house look like at the end of the day when Hubby gets home?
There are times that it's messy.. usually toys and clothes (when I'm doing laundry and folding) but most of the time it's well put. The kitchen area though is always in bad shape. :)

14. How do you feel about running a household?
Big responsibility but it's fun at the same time. As long as me and my husband is doing it together I think we can manage it.

15. What is the sweetest gift you have given your Husband so far?
Wow... I'm not sure.. I have to ask him that one. I have given him a lot of gifts so I don't know which one.

For all the moms and dads out there, grab the tag and share it with your other parents as well.

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