Does your ring still fits you?

I'm talking about your wedding and engagement ring. Does it still fits you? Literally, mine is a little smaller now for my ring finger. When we bought it, it was actually bigger and we had it resize. When we had resize I told my husband that I don't want to small, just in case I gain weight I can still wear it... but the people on the jewelry store insisted to make it tight enough so they said it will not fall out. Well, now I can't even wear it anymore. It still fits but once I put it on, its a headache taking it off. There are times that i't even cutting the circulation of blood on my finger. So now, I am not even wearing it anymore. My wedding and engagement ring are soldered together making it look like one piece. The wedding ring was made to fit the engagement ring...

I don't really want to have it resize again to make it a little bigger. I was thinking that instead of spending that money to have it resize might as well save it so I can get an upgrade for my ring. We have that option when we purchase it. We can take the ring back and get a different one and they will take the full amount that we pay for it, apply it to the current one and we just have to pay the remaining balance. I actually like the idea of that upgrade. So for now, I am not wearing any wedding or engagement ring... rather I am wearing the ring that my husband gave me on my birthday.The loose diamonds is purple which is the color of my birthstone.

What I really want to do is to be able to design the ring. Maybe when we renew our vows I can have one of those own design ring...white gold with lots of stones, but I don't want something that is too big for my finger. A woman can dream right?